Jeni

I agree - let your dog choose you! When we got Ewan, at a rescue shelter, I wanted a different dog, but Ewan was putting his paw through the wire of the kennel at us - he really wanted us to notice him. He was very timid at first, but adores us to distraction! By the way, Mr Snappy, all my dogs - male and female, have been neutered if that makes any difference to their behaviour. I was only speaking from my own experience of the male/female thing. And that goes for cats too!!

Ewan sees my husband as the Alpha pack leader and is totally submissive to him.

Why are you all so down on dogs being "protective"? My Border Collie, Ewan, (a pet, not a work dog,)would protect me against all comers. When my husband gives me a kiss and a hug, Ewan goes mad, barking furiously. It`s a good game. But I feel secure when out walking because I am sure that if I was attacked for real he would wade in and mean it!! By the way, I personally wouldn`t choose a male dog again. I always had bitches before, and they are far more biddable and quiet. Also males make the yard stink because they pee everywhere!!!