Hi,
How can I get my pup to stop snapping at people? Here is the background:
3.5 weeks ago my wife and I adopted a 6-9 month old border collie cross from the local SPCA. Even though Stevie Nips is a bit on the small side for BC's (~20#s) and so clearly mixed, she exhibits lots of BC traits such as her coloring, herding, stalking, is very smart and athletic, etc... We have no information about her previous life or parents.
She is very receptive to training, already has learned not to jump, sit, down, place, chair, up, off and getting better at leash manners too.
She is always very friendly and submissive to strangers giving them low tail wags, happily approaches them and rolls over when they pet her.
She has "bitten"/snapped at 4 people since we got her 3.5 weeks ago: 2 vets, my wife (2x) and father-in-law. She has never broken the skin or really caused any pain, so seems to have good bite inhibition. The first time with my wife was when my wife tried to take some food away from her that she found on a walk and the 2nd time was when my wife went to move a toy that she was playing with (which is what also happened with my father in law).
After the first Vet bite, they suggested practicing medical touching while giving her treats, which we did. It's hard to know if they helped during the 2nd visit, because while she did eventually snap, she was more calm and did better longer, but she was sick, so energy was down.
My wife and I both care for her, but I definitely spend more time with her and play more with her. She has never snapped at me, even though I do all the triggers too. My wife is 7.5 months pregnant and works full time, so is doing as much as she really can already. Obviously having a baby on the way is a forcing factor in dealing with the snapping and biting though.
Each time she snaps around toys, she doesn't really indicate before hand that she is upset. No growling or mouthing or trying to escape, and with the toys she is often playing with the person happily, returning again and again for more play.
She rarely makes any noises at all. Maybe a single bark if someone opens the front door or she finds a raccoon in the backyard, like last night.
With the last vet incident (last night), she happily and submissively approached the vet, stayed in the center of the room with her, and the vet was petting her for at least 5 minutes while speaking with us in the exam room, and then BAM. It was seemingly out of no where.
She doesn't know "Drop it" or similar command yet, which is probably something I need focus on.
For her, food is the best thing, more so than toys. So if she is playing with a toy, and you give her a treat, she ignores the toy and won't go back to playing, so you can't get any reps in, in terms working on drop it.
I have a couple of questions:
What do I do when she snaps at someone? My reaction is to harshly scold her and remove her from the toy or food, but I am reading that that could contribute to the problem by installing a mindset that when someone is doing something she doesn't like, it is going to lead to punishment, which could make her initial reaction worse. Is that overthinking it?
How do I work with her on not snapping when she doesn't do it to me? There doesn't seem to be a way to get repetitions in that doesn't involve strangers or friends, which might lead to them getting bitten.
Is there some way to train her to exhibit a human acceptable complaint (growling, soft mouthing, etc...) that is not snapping?
Tips on training a dog "drop it" when they totally ignore toys when food or treats are present? I think a good drop it command will help, but how do I teach it?
Thanks so much for any info you can share. While my wife and I grew up with dogs, she is our first dog that wasn't also our parents and first BC. We already love her so much and just want her and us to be happy and comfortable together.
Cheers,
Chris