JaderBug Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 I've never posted in this section of the boards... it's kind of surreal. And I'm doing it for two. Just this past Wednesday I lost my sweet old man, Rocko. For simplicity's sake, I'm just going to post the tribute I wrote on Facebook:"I remember, 11 years ago, when we had lost our dog Cody in the winter, Dad and I decided we couldn't wait until spring to bring another dog to the farm. Just our luck, Cody's breeder had a litter on the ground at the right age to bring home. He sent us some photos of the puppies. Sasha, the one with the good traditional Border Collie markings, she was the one for sure. But ACK! Look at that ugly bald-faced one! Why would anyone want one that looked like that?? Of course, when we got there, he won our hearts over, and since we couldn't decide between Rocko and Sasha, they both came home with us. I'm so thankful that I made it home last night to say goodbye. He started out the morning a little weak, but went rapidly downhill by the afternoon, it was his time. As I came into the garage, my handsome, sweet old man who was so weak I almost didn't recognize him, raised up enough to see me and the tip of his tail waggled just enough to say "I'm so glad you're here!" My best friend is a veterinarian and was kind enough to come for a home euthanasia, I can't express how thankful I am that we didn't have to take him away from everything he knew in his final moments. Rocko passed in my arms, no more pain, no more cold. We buried him next to my horse Bobbie (who passed away earlier this year), I'm sure they're having a great time together wherever they are. I pray Sasha can find balance without her brother, I hope she handles suddenly being a single dog alright. She looked a little confused last night as I put her in their kennel. "Dogs' lives are too short. Their only fault, really." - Agnes Sligh Turnbull Goodbye, buddy. I love you and I miss you!" Rocko on his 10th birthday: Earlier this year I also lost my old mare, Bobbie. She was also starting to lose weight and blood tests showed her kidneys were shutting down, she barely had an appetite and wasn't drinking any water. The time came, though, that I couldn't ignore the fact that she was continuing to go downhill, the decision was made. Her last few hours were spent heartily munching on a bucket of oats, drinking some water, and sunbathing. She was 31 years old, and had been one of my best companions for the last 14 years. She taught me everything I know about horses. Bobbie on her 30th birthday: These are the first two pets I've ever had to make the decision to send them to the bridge, breaks my heart thinking about both of them and I can't believe I've had to do this twice in one year. You want to believe they will get better and they still have several years left to be with you, but in the end I'm so glad I did right by them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GentleLake Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 I'm so sorry for your losses. They're never with us long enough. I home you can take comfort in knowing that you did an amazing kindness for your friends at the end, and that you can remember fondly the love and good times you shared with them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urge to herd Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 So sorry for your losses. Thank you for sharing Rocko and Bobbie with us. Ruth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gcv-border Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 My condolences on your losses. It sounds like you made the compassionate decision in each case. It is very hard when two pass within a short time. (I had to make "the decision" for 2 cats about 2 years ago - one was expected, whereas one was totally unexpected. (Within 3 months of each other) RIP. Jovi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
G. Festerling Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 I am so very sorry. No doubt the had wonderful lives and will continue to provide comfort to you with all the wonderful memories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gideon's girl Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 I'm so sorry for your losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sue R Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 So sorry for you, especially losing two so close together. As for your having to decide, a dear friend said it best - "We do it because we love them that much." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Journey Posted November 22, 2013 Report Share Posted November 22, 2013 Oh Jaderbug, I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mdaniels Posted November 23, 2013 Report Share Posted November 23, 2013 I'm so sorry for your losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WildFlower Posted November 23, 2013 Report Share Posted November 23, 2013 I am very sorry for your losses... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShoresDog Posted November 23, 2013 Report Share Posted November 23, 2013 Darn, that is sure hard. You did the right thing, but it couldn't have been easy. I am very sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cody & Duchess Posted November 23, 2013 Report Share Posted November 23, 2013 So sorry for your loss, hugs to Sasha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bcnewe2 Posted November 23, 2013 Report Share Posted November 23, 2013 Tears and more hugs sent your way. Such big holes left in our hearts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shetlander Posted November 23, 2013 Report Share Posted November 23, 2013 Sorry for two such hard losses so close in time. You did right by your friends, giving them one last, loving gift - that of a peaceful passing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terrecar Posted November 24, 2013 Report Share Posted November 24, 2013 I am so sorry for your losses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alchemist Posted November 25, 2013 Report Share Posted November 25, 2013 I'm so sorry, Rachel. You and your parents gave them both good homes and good lives. I know they'll be sorely missed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
juliepoudrier Posted November 26, 2013 Report Share Posted November 26, 2013 I'm sorry Rachel. They both looked beautiful. They enriched your life immeasurably and when the time came, you acted with love and compassion. They couldn't have asked for more. I hope your memories of them will eventually bring smiles to you, even if they bring tears now. J. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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